The year i turned 20

Today I turned 20. Before writing a letter to 20-year-old me, it’s better to introduce myself. I am Clinton Imaro, a computer science major at Hogent. I’ve worked for more than 5 companies which range from startups to corporations while still under my twenties.

I’ve experienced different environments, learned various programming languages, but most importantly, I’ve learned so much about life while growing up. I've faced tough decisions, thought deeply about life, and many other things.

I remember they always say when you turn 18, you are an adult. However, I started my adulting journey way before 18, and despite so many challenges, and being trained by a single mom, I've always held onto the promise that I would always make her really proud.

For me, tech is not just a hobby; it's a lifestyle. Now, still under my early twenties, I have some valuable life lessons that guide the way I live. Additionally, I find strength and inspiration in my favorite podcast from Kevin Trudeau - Your Wish Is Your Command, which I listen to almost every day. It's a source of motivation and a constant companion in my journey. Your Wish Is Your Command by Kevin Trudeau.

Dear 20-year-old Clinton,

As you stand on the threshold of what I hope will be the most vibrant decade of your life, I want to share some thoughts that might guide you through the twists and turns of the coming years. These words are not just reminders but echoes of our shared dreams and aspirations, shaped by the experiences we've gathered.

Firstly, embrace the journey of continuous learning. Right now, you're deeply engrossed in technology and engineering, always on the lookout for the next skill to master, the next project to undertake. This thirst for knowledge is a powerful tool—wield it wisely. Remember, the landscape of technology is ever-evolving; stay adaptable, stay curious.

Pursue your passions relentlessly. You've always had a knack for understanding complex systems, a vision for simplifying the intricate. This isn't just a skill, it's a gift. Use it not just to advance your career but to make a difference. Build things that help people, that make the world a more efficient, more compassionate place.

Balance is key. In your pursuit of professional accomplishments, don't lose sight of the simple joys. Spend time with family and friends, indulge in your hobbies, and take care of your health—both mental and physical. These elements create a foundation of stability and happiness that fuels all other endeavors.

Cultivate resilience. You will face challenges, setbacks, even failures. Embrace them like you alway do. Each is a lesson, an opportunity to grow stronger and more adept. Remember, it's not the setbacks that define us, but how we respond to them.

Give back to the community. Pay it forward. Contribute to those communities, share your knowledge, mentor others. The satisfaction from helping others succeed is a reward unlike any other.

Stay true to your values. In both your personal and professional life, integrity and honesty will define your relationships and your reputation. Stand firm for what you believe in, even when it's not the popular choice.

Explore the world. Travel, not just physically but intellectually. Engage with cultures, ideas, and technologies from around the globe. Each new experience will broaden your perspective, making you a better thinker, a better leader, a better person.

Keep an open heart. You'll meet many people along your journey. Some will challenge you, some will teach you, and some will need your kindness. Be open to all these interactions; empathy and understanding are the hallmarks of true wisdom.

Document your journey. Write, record, reflect. These records will be invaluable to you, a map of where you've been and a guide to where you're going. They will remind you of your progress, your challenges, and your victories.

Lastly, enjoy every moment. Time is a non-renewable resource, and every day is a gift. Laugh often, love deeply, and live fully. These are the days you'll look back on with pride and joy.

As you forge ahead, remember that the future is not something you enter; it's something you create. Make it bright, make it count, make it yours.

With all the hope and wisdom I can muster,

Sincerely,

Clinton